While I see the sun set by, I couldn’t help wonder what is
it that I am letting go away from me and what is that it is leaving behind for
me. No sooner that I found my answer, I
also discovered a thought that says - is ending a relationship, more or less
the sunset of our lives?
1.
You lose the consuming moments, the profound
love & the person who has let you feel all of these and so there is definitely
an obvious sunshine that you lose. But will it ever be a brighter sunrise if
you’ve never been through the night? The
dark prepares you for the worst that any night can ever have for you. You
eventually can look at yourself as someone who is better!
2.
Yes the sunset makes it all gloomy & the
night lowers the noise than you ever had it when it was sunshine. Your damages
can be huge , your words can get pale & your trust can be shaken but with
all that you learn to heel yourself, your silence helps you listen more &
your wiser to know that your trust is worth a little more.
3.
Yes, the sunset leaves you with a pause for sometime
& you feel you are not moving at all. But this is when you settle with a calm
to look back for all that you’ve learnt, all that you’ve lost, all that makes
you the person you are & all that with which you wish to take a new leap
all over again.
4.
Relationship ends are not always pretty, they
can be immensely foul & exhausting but there is nothing that stops you from
preventing yourself from taking the unwanted plunge in the dark. You can be
wise enough to look for a peaceful shelter where you can sleep on it, until the
next day can wake you up with a better answer, a better perspective & a
better approach.
5.
None starts a relationship with a time stamp &
we all want it forever, but sometimes just as they say life is what happens
when you are busy doing other things, so acceptance over the fate is important.
But yes, some of us are too strong a believer in the strength of our will that
we wish to hang on to it there until the things go right again. So, why not we just strike a balance to understand
that this is the time for your sun to set let it go with no regrets & hope
that the sunrise gets a brighter day for you all over again.
