Childhood ... a closed chapter or a lost identity?

Have we really grown up on it or have we just dropped it somewhere in between? 

When I see my little sister growing up, I couldn’t help myself wonder when did I stop being a child after all?

With each birthday candle, did I even blew away the existence of the child in me. 

When did the perks of being an adult came with a disclaimer that it can only fit in your life  if you kill away -

the innocence that doesn’t make you put your mind first into everything, 

the energy that doesn’t really stop you from going, 

the forgiveness, 

the affinity to love & be loved,

 the lack of prejudices & judgements, 

the effortless smile , 

the sound sleep, 

fearlessly dreaming and endlessly learning.

Have we grown up wiser, mature & responsible at the cost of losing a bit of all of these. So what is it that takes it away, is it that all the better things we are picking with age, is dominantly suppressing the good that lives in us. Or is it the inevitable thrust of life that pulls some definite cost for everything it gives.

 

Eventually no matter how gracefully you age, your childhood is exposed as a victim-

to the damages caused,

to the regrets, 

to the lost relations, 

to the broken dreams, 

to the fate of destiny & 

to everything that becomes a part of the struggle that makes you who you are today.

And in that moment, I had my answer. I am sorry, I couldn’t really preserve it all, because there never was & will be a smooth terrain and I did not plan to stop. But when I look back, yes the child in me was amazing and is neither lost nor closed. Some random thoughts like these will bring me back in conversation to the child in me !

 

5 REASONS WHY THE END OF A RELATIONSHIP SHOULD BE TAKEN WITH "A SUNSET APPROACH" !!

While I see the sun set by, I couldn’t help wonder what is it that I am letting go away from me and what is that it is leaving behind for me.  No sooner that I found my answer, I also discovered a thought that says - is ending a relationship, more or less the sunset of our lives?

1.       You lose the consuming moments, the profound love & the person who has let you feel all of these and so there is definitely an obvious sunshine that you lose. But will it ever be a brighter sunrise if you’ve never been through the night?  The dark prepares you for the worst that any night can ever have for you. You eventually can look at yourself as someone who is better!

2.       Yes the sunset makes it all gloomy & the night lowers the noise than you ever had it when it was sunshine. Your damages can be huge , your words can get pale & your trust can be shaken but with all that you learn to heel yourself, your silence helps you listen more & your wiser to know that your trust is worth a little more.

3.       Yes, the sunset leaves you with a pause for sometime & you feel you are not moving at all. But this is when you settle with a calm to look back for all that you’ve learnt, all that you’ve lost, all that makes you the person you are & all that with which you wish to take a new leap all over again.

4.       Relationship ends are not always pretty, they can be immensely foul & exhausting but there is nothing that stops you from preventing yourself from taking the unwanted plunge in the dark. You can be wise enough to look for a peaceful shelter where you can sleep on it, until the next day can wake you up with a better answer, a better perspective & a better approach.

5.       None starts a relationship with a time stamp & we all want it forever, but sometimes just as they say life is what happens when you are busy doing other things, so acceptance over the fate is important. But yes, some of us are too strong a believer in the strength of our will that we wish to hang on to it there until the things go right again.  So, why not we just strike a balance to understand that this is the time for your sun to set let it go with no regrets & hope that the sunrise gets a brighter day for you all over again.

How Life can be fun like shopping !

I was born to live like it means to shop,
I am just a pale skin, I bought colors to add,
I looked for the corner that sells smile,
I saw the golden pack of success,
And a huge chunk of happiness,
They say it is way too costly to try,
And just when you keep moving,
This market will have more such things to eye,
All you need is to look, bargain & keep trying,
There was also love in difference forms & price,
Trust me it was the most traded thing of all times,
Cautiously know that you aren’t walking with a copy of its true kind,
There were also mirrors around called friends,
Spend enough to know that you pick the most clear ones,
Trails are important to make choices ,
Unless you spend too much time, coz there still is lot to come,
This shopping is long and needs a lifetime,
Make sure you leave nothing unspent,
Coz this market is just a single try,
You spend what you came with & you breathe away all that you’ll buy,
And just when you know you have had it all,
You’re goo to exit with a handful memories of existing under its sky.

Surajkund Handicraft Mela

There’s a silent face to every noisiest place ever.
There’s light where darkness has dwell forever,
There’s art , there is beauty around what looks chaotic,
There’s always a ray of self-exploration to where people walks in for a fun endeavor.
Lose yourself to a place like this,
Embrace yourself with the air it breathes,
Colors are everywhere around,
You just need to pick a brush to paint your screen.

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