Leap of Life between early & late 20s ??

A.  SOCIAL PERSONNEL LIFE or I say Yeh Jawaani Hai hi Deewani:

Social life is more or less a matter of count. When you are in early 20s you are still the bird out of the nest: the new work life , the new network circles , the monetary independence is definitely the catalyst to play role in the increasing graph of your social networking. The weekends must go on fire. It becomes a style statement to have multiple check ins & images of friendly outings on the social networking sites.

 But the graph very soon reaches its saturation in late 20s when comes the era of the coffee meet types. Life at home & with self-engagements is equally more important. The social circle is cut down to those who are close when it comes to personnel times but the subtle you still would ensure a healthy networking. You began to make coffee & beer buddies instead. And people like me becomes Speaking Cappuccino.

B.    CAREER IS ALWAYS A FOCUS ONLY THE INTENSITY PARAMETERS CHANGES( the Guru Mantra )

By the mid of early 20s most of us been kicked out of the nest so the flight is definitely not very smooth and also no single portion of the  sky  is the playground which we  wish to settle before touching more corners. The new toy in the hand called self-earned money seems to us like a blessing & less the figures more positively motivated we are towards adding the zeros.

But just as we move towards the late 20s, domain expertise become a part of your professional identity and this at times restricts our flexibility towards trying new options. But  this can also be called focus on single direction which is even more beneficial. The money always looks less, this can be because of the increasing responsibilities & changing lifestyle.  Remember the Bollywood movie Guru starring Abhishek Bachan!!

C.   COCKTAIL  RELATIONSHIPS :

The high school love has just matured to the next level; most of us now start moving towards having more mature outlook towards relationships. That doesn’t mean we are in a hurry for serious relations or focus more on the commitments but we are still more upfront towards confronting our relationships & have learnt to understand & respect our partner more. The feminist me would like to put forward a point that men in early 20s prefer to hang out with more outgoing, flamboyant & confident women, the women on the other hand have started becoming choosier with their options as they are the first of the breed to develop the needs of settling down.

. Moving towards the late 20s, we see this change that was well defined in the Bollywood movie Cocktail starring Sail Ali & Deepika that most men now are more spectacle of dating, and most often we hear them saying that they are still looking for the right girl, is this because their criteria has now become more in sync with the family choice or is it because for them something worth being a relationship must have a future? The women by now are in the most dilemmatic position, they are getting cut down on options but their saturated mind is more concentrated with the choices.


C.   2 PHASE FAMILY OUTLOOK : 

There is clear difference one can draw in our look of early & late 20s. Early 20s still have the slight inertia of the teenage cool fashion sense to some stages & we are more colorful, bright & highly sensitive to changes in the fashion trends. This is also the time it gets tough for our family at times to absorb the change in us as they take their time to understand the grown up you with self-responsible attitude. This difference is mostly seen as the reason to lack of quality family times.

But then with time we are acceptable and trusted more and vice versa. Also by time we develop our own fashion sense, we define our own body comfort & so we are less sensitive to changing fashion trends & definitely more classified.