Long distance relationships : Redefining via Sunset Ideology !!

Long distance relationships, is it just a terminology to describe a courtship category?? A formula to solve the mathematics of love being distant or a baggage that we choose to carry along??I say it is a sunset… A dusk to a day called love.
The first ray of sunlight is how you choose to fall in , is it love in first sight , is it that friendship that out of the blue gave you fireworks or is it that undefined relation that spoke to you in silence that this is it..  No matter how you let the first ray enter you horizon, but it is promising as you start to live your day, a day called togetherness and a day called spreading love.

Most of us are lucky enough to preserve the sunlight forever, but there are some whose love is bound to face the sunset… the distance which cannot be measured in miles. More than we promise our certain someone, we do more to our own self that nothing at all shall change. And more than this, we know that it will. It is a paradox, where a part of us knows that the night is genetically beautiful and there is a part that is afraid of the dark. As the sun sets, the sky burns itself deep red while it bids a farewell to the sun… that’s how it is for us to accept the separation and perhaps it is the most volatile beginning of any long distance relationship where there is a volcano of emotions and deep introspection.
The places you revisit like a million times, the pictures you love to repeat, the chats you revise and smile, the wait keeps triggering the anxious you, every fight gets more dreadful, you miss, you obsess, you grab , you loosen, you get alone, you get bound , every time you do something you define your night.  You let the sunset and the stars to take over.
But how often do we let the night not scare the dark side of the long distance relation. Do we really let the vows bear the distance? Do we realize that the night can be beautiful if you choose to see the moonlight over the dark, if you choose to make someone feel you are around?  This night is silent , this night is cold , this night is windy  , but look at the bright side when the in the silence you can talk more , when in cold you can embrace more, when in wind you can let your emotions flow.
So, long distance relation is surely not a bed of roses, it is that sunset that comes at the cost of the darkness that envelopes your relation… but then there always are and will be,  those “stars” that can shine till you wait for the dawn. So I end it with a thought that what do you want to wake up to – a sunrise full of hopes or a morning with the remains of a nightmare!!

This beautiful theme was brought to me by someone I adore for his unbeatable love for this lady miles away. They have created their own definition of love that embraces the word called distance.. The city is new to him, when she is around and her absence makes her heart grow fonder I hardly find them going short of words, they talk like the words are endless even if it is to fight. Dear Shashwat & Ankita, as you both let the stars cover you sky, may you soon have your awaited sunrise.